End-of-Life Support Services
End-of-life doula support services are broad and very personalized. Because every person’s circumstances are unique, there isn’t a one-size-fits-all way to work together. Sometimes my role is very practical; other times, it might simply be holding space for emotions, questions, and whatever is arising. How I support you is guided by your needs, which are fluid and can change over time.
Below are some ways we can spend our time together. You might want to focus on just one area or explore a few – whatever feels right for you.
Advance Care Planning (ACP)
Most of us delay thinking about end-of-life care because it feels overwhelming, premature, or emotional. But even simple planning can make a big difference and be hugely reassuring. You don’t have to do it alone.
When loved ones know your preferences ahead of time, you prevent them from guessing or disagreeing during an already difficult time. Advance care planning helps you clarify what’s most important to you, have meaningful conversations with those who might have to speak on your behalf to guide their decision making, and complete any relevant documents. We can review forms/ terms such as:
Representation Agreements & Temporary Substitute Decision Makers
Advance Directives
Letter of Wishes
No CPR Form (formerly DNR)
MOST Form (Medical Orders for Scope of Treatment)
Expected Death in the Home (EDitH)
Enduring Power of Attorney
Last Will and Testament
I also support administrative aftercare – organizing passwords, accounts, subscriptions, utilities, social media, and everyday logistics – for yourself and those settling your affairs.
“It should be a required course for life.” – ACP Workshop Participant
Compassionate Care & Support
Strengthening communication within your family and circle of support
Identifying and clarifying wishes, values, and priorities
Help navigating the healthcare system and communicating with care teams
Self-care check-ins and respite planning for caregivers
Helping with tender or difficult conversations
Education & Resource Sharing
Clarifying and advocating for your preferences throughout your illness
Information to understand the dying process and what you might expect
Curated resources: books, websites, and practices to support your journey
Referrals to community organizations, helping professionals, and funeral homes
Discussing disposition and aftercare options
Conversations & Legacy
Listening to and discussing feelings, curiosities, and fears around dying
Encouraging and restoring connections to help complete relationships
Exploring meaning, stories, legacy, and defining moments
Remembrance projects such as letters, recordings, photos, memory books, art projects
Vigil & MAiD Support
Discussing and helping to be prepared for changes in the body during active dying
In person vigil support during active dying
Guidance on what can be done immediately after death before taking next steps
Emotional and practical support before and during Medical Assistance in Dying (MAiD) provisions
Grief Care
Emotional support for the many forms and variations of grief
Compassionate presence immediately after a death and check-ins for the weeks and months following
Suggestions for personal, ongoing rituals to honour your person and help you stay connected to them
Packages & Pricing
Hourly rate: $90
Personalized hourly consulting on any aspect of end-of-life care and planning.
THRESHOLD PACKAGE:
5 hours – $425
Individualized support in a focused amount of time to explore priorities, have family discussions, and receive support for any stage of illness.
WAYFINDING PACKAGE:
10 hours – $800
Support that allows for greater continuity over time, with space for ongoing conversations and responsiveness as needs evolve.
FULL PASSAGE PACKAGE:
20 hours – $1500
Comprehensive, tailored care over a longer period offering presence and flexibility through more complex or changing circumstances.
It’s my hope that finances are not a barrier to receiving support. If cost is a concern, please reach out to discuss sliding scale or payment options.